the_devilsbitch (![[info]](http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} the_devilsbitch) wrote in lucifein, |
if anything, i think its probably harder when knowing its on its way.
at least they are at peace now & without pain wherever they are ;o) x
i recently lost my best friend, and always think of her and smile remembering all the really good times we shared, i try to remember and be thankfull for all the good things she brought me and all the things ive gained in myself through knowing her, rather than allow myself to think of my loss.
its still very hard though, but at least dwelling on the positive of a very negative thing helps in a way to deal with it.
im not trying to in any way lecture,or say how you should feel. am just saying its been my way of coping, and i hope that even in some small way it helps.
i like to think of her leaving of this life not as goodbye, but see you again.
x
at least they are at peace now & without pain wherever they are ;o) x
i recently lost my best friend, and always think of her and smile remembering all the really good times we shared, i try to remember and be thankfull for all the good things she brought me and all the things ive gained in myself through knowing her, rather than allow myself to think of my loss.
its still very hard though, but at least dwelling on the positive of a very negative thing helps in a way to deal with it.
im not trying to in any way lecture,or say how you should feel. am just saying its been my way of coping, and i hope that even in some small way it helps.
i like to think of her leaving of this life not as goodbye, but see you again.
x
